Grey’s Anatomy got this one right: a penis can actually be fractured. No. There is not an actual bone inside that boner, but the spongy tissue that fills with blood to harden the penis during erection and the more dense tissue surrounding these chambers (tunica albuginea) can become ruptured.
It is suffice to say that you’ll know if a penis is broken, but symptoms may include a loud snap…
If you’ve ever attended one of my workshops or educational seminars, you’ll know that one of the first rules of sex is lube, lube, lube! Along with an open mind and honest communication, lube is fundamental to both safety and pleasure. There is just so much more you can do in terms of stroking, pulsing, squeezing, twisting, rubbing and kissing when you’re both nice and wet.
Not only does…
By: Stephen de Wit
“Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to slide in sideways, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, screaming ‘HOLY CRAP what a ride!’” George Carlin
“Dance like no one is watching. Love like you’ll never be hurt. Sing like no one is listening. Live like it is heaven on earth.” William Purkey
These are just two…
By Stephen de Wit
With this article I am planning on single-handedly dismantling the story lines of many a blockbuster movie and the plots of many books. The way to find the world’s best lover is…are you ready? By a show of hands who wants to find the world’s best lover? Yes, I am serious. Raise your hand. It’s you! That’s it! You found her!
For centuries women have gushed over…
Calcium is the mineral most likely to be deficient in the average diet. It is the chief supportive element in bones and teeth. Calcium salts make up about 70 percent of bone weight and give your bones strength and rigidity.
About 99 percent of the calcium in the human body is held in the bones and teeth. The remaining one percent of calcium circulates in the bloodstream, where it performs a…
Breasts! Also referred to as ta tas, love pillows, boobies, titties and melons, breasts are often at the forefront of sex play and are lovely, beautiful parts of the female body.
We hear a lot about breast health and the importance of checking them regularly as part of the breast cancer screening process and this message is of paramount importance, so please do be sure to check your breasts.
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The life of a sexologist is an exciting one! I know –hard to believe, right? And among the many fun and interesting projects I contribute to on a daily basis, hosting workshops on sexual pleasure is one of my favourite parts of the job. I love the energy, anticipation and insightful questions participants bring to the session and I always learn something new from each group.
Many people wonder…
By Stephen de Wit
I hear it over and over. Why does my partner want to have a threesome with me and another woman? My answer is always I do not know what your partner’s motivation is, there could be a thousand different reasons. The important question to ask is what do you think about having sex with another woman (or man for that matter) and your partner and more importantly what is your…
What a great question! But the only person who can really provide an answer is you. If you feel ready, willing and prepared and have taken some time to consider how you feel, then you may very well be ready. If you feel unsure of your preparedness, then you should probably wait until you feel more comfortable.
I wish I could tell you that 5.6 dates or 904 minutes of dating-time means that you’re…
By Stephen de Wit
If you have read the Sex Negotiations – 101 article you are half way there. Now the second and for some people the most challenging part: How to communicate with your partner, well let me correct that, how to communicate well about sex with your partner. We are in a constant state of communication, through body language, silence, moans, grunts, screams, arguments and…
